9 Ways to Creating the Perfect Hero

Science experimentThe hero:  perfect.  Muscular, kind-hearted, rich, capable, funny, ad just the right height.

But that’s not all there is to it, is there?  When we are writing the hero, there are so many elements that need to be considered.  After all, he really does need to be perfect. And human-ish.  And normal.  And above normal.

How can we even do this?  Our expectations are pretty high.  In addition to creating a spectacular physical specimen of a man, he needs to be perfect in other ways.  I think the following nine elements are important in a hero I’m going to let my heroine fall in love with.  You can let me know if you have things to add to the list, in the comments!

1. Genuine Kindness

Is he the fireman who rescues the kittens (easy out), or is he the guy that realizes the heroine may need a helping hand or that being kind, even to someone that can’t help him?  I’ll take the second.  A truly kind man doesn’t need a uniform (although that is hella sexy) to be kind.  He just needs an open heart and a sense of empathy or ability to see when someone is struggling.

2. Stability

Hoo-boy is this an important thing in real life.  And it is important in a story too.  The reader and the heroine both need to know that he is going to make it through the story, that he has his head, finances, and ambitions focused on success.

3. Emotionally Supportive

Is he going to react with anger and distrust, and ruin a good thing, or is he going to be that pulled-together guy who really does have the emotional answers?  And is he able to feel what the heroine feels, and support her through her journey too?

4. Some Actual Manners

Yes, I’m old school.  Please don’t use your fork as a spear to pick up your dinner and gnaw at it until it is gone.  Please open that door for me, and please walk on the side closest to the street.  Seriously, it’s not that hard.  Oh yes, and keep your burps and farts to yourself!

5. Reliability

Do what you say you will do, say what you mean, and live up to your obligations.  No one likes a slacker.

6.  An Open Heart

How else is he going to fall in love with her?  But this extends to more than just her.  This extends to the other people he may be interacting with in the story.  No one can resist an open-hearted man.  We just want to hug them and squeeze them and call them…(not George).

7. Generosity

Gimme your money!  Or at least, let me see you spend your money.  Don’t be a cheapskate.  And this applies to actions, too.  Don’t be stingy.  Strength is truly shown in how you treat others.

8. A Passion For Life

Another no-brainer, at least for me.  What is life without passion?  It doesn’t matter if you are into old cars, coaching little league soccer, growing perfect roses, or playing music.  Have a love of something besides yourself.  Passion for something is a complete turn-on.

9. Pride In Making People Smile

The world can be a dark, dark place.  And we tend to ramp up the negatives in our writing, because it is dramatic and helps the reader buy in better to the story and characters.  But don’t forget that humor is what really makes the world go around. Know when to laugh, and know how to make other people laugh.  The skill that allows you diffuse a situation with humor is one you can’t discount.  Everyone needs to laugh once in a while.

So, what do you think?  What would you add to this list?  Leave me a comment!


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3 thoughts on “9 Ways to Creating the Perfect Hero

  1. All very good attributes for a hero. My favorite is always having a sense of humor. That and not taking himself too seriously. He can take his heroine seriously, his job, his passions, but not himself. Makes him too self-involved.

  2. A great list of positive hero traits. I agree with Jana. A sense of humour is huge. Honesty is right up there at the top of my list as well.

  3. Great attributes. But I like him to be a little tortured too. It makes him fallible. And of course, he needs to be an experienced hot lover… xx

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